The very clear answer in Scripture is that "yes" Christ died for you. And I think that's the point. Committing acts of homosexuality goes directly against the very spirit of the One who gave His life blood to rescue you from your sin. Being saved is merely the result of accepting His gift. But the lascivious lifestyle of sodomy (which is really just "homosexuality" played out to it's bitter end) is in direct antithesis to the love of God.
So, to reiterate: yes, you can be saved. You can have eternal life. You can be forgiven.
Take that as the gift of God. It will heal your hurts, it will mend your broken heart. Christ made a promise to you before you were even born: "whosoever shall call on the name of the Lord shall be saved." He was aware of your potential weaknesses. He knew of your potential failures. Let your heart be healed by the Great Physician.
Do you desire true, non-sexual demanding, love? Do you wish to bury yourself in the arms of the Almighty without the demands of seduction? Do you desire the affection of a friend that sticks closer than a brother?
And if you read this message with a snicker in your heart and a desire to taint what is holy, may your soul be damned for eternity. There is still hope for those that you have sexually and emotionally abused but your hard heart has yet to be broken. May you break yourself before the eternal judgement of God crashes on your head and destroys you both in this life and the life after death.